Cats may have a reputation for being independent, but they have their own unique ways of showing affection. Here are several signs that your cat truly loves you:
Purring – One of the most recognizable signs of a content and affectionate cat, purring often means your cat feels safe and happy in your presence.
Slow Blinking – When your cat looks at you and slowly blinks, it’s a sign of trust and affection. You can return the gesture to strengthen your bond.
Head Butting and Nuzzling – Cats have scent glands on their heads, and rubbing or bumping you is a way of marking you as “theirs” and showing love.
Following You Around – If your cat likes to be near you or follows you from room to room, it means they enjoy your company and feel secure around you.
Kneading – This behaviour, where cats push their paws in and out against a soft surface (including you), is a comforting action from kittenhood and shows affection.
Bringing You “Gifts” – Whether it’s a toy or a small critter from outside, your cat is sharing something they value with you—an unusual but genuine sign of love.
Exposing Their Belly – When your cat rolls onto their back and shows their belly, it’s a sign of trust. Though not all cats like belly rubs, this vulnerable position means they feel safe with you.
Grooming You – Licking your hands, face, or hair is a way cats’ bond socially, similar to how they groom each other.
Sleeping on You – Choosing to nap on your lap or chest shows they feel secure and bonded to you.
These subtle behaviours reflect deep trust and affection from your feline friend.